Sunday, November 11, 2012

Look! I’m finally telling you about Halloween (pt. 1)


Hello again. If there are any veterans reading this, then thank you for your service! The reason I didn’t take pictures during this stretch of time is that I thought my camera itself was broken because I dropped it on Saturday 10/20, and it seemed to be dead. So the one photo that’s in this post was actually part of a failed test to see if it was working. I’ll go ahead and tell you, though, that dropping it apparently only had an impact on the practically-new batteries, because after I changed them on Thursday, just before planning to get a new camera prior to my trip to Houlgate in Normandy on Friday, it was as good as new! So, Lord willing, my next post (hopefully on tomorrow 11/12) will talk about my trip to the northern coast of France and include lots of pictures. For now, here’s a fairly speedy look at a 4-day stretch. Peace - ML 

Sunday, October 21 – Sunshine at the Park + « Pot au Feu » + Bottled Water vs. Eternal Life
·         Church x2, as usual, with my buddy for the second service at the American Church
·         Nice, sunshiny day, so we decided to spend time outside at the Jardin de Luxembourg after church just chatting and people-watching; brief detour at a shoe store, where I helped counsel her about a boot purchase
A glimpse of the kitchen, where I spend a lot of my time
·         Made classic French dish of « pot au feu » for dinner (with some help from the folks who pre-packaged it for me…); it’s basically just beef stew; supposed to be 2 helpings but I had enough leftovers to eat it 2 more times during the week
·         Failed attempt at getting more bottled water from the grocery store as I sought to look ahead to my probable level of thirst over the next day or two and my lack of sufficient bottled water (BTW it’s very normal to drink bottled water rather than tap water here); grocery stores near me were all closed, though, since it was Sunday night
·         The Holy Spirit reminded me that Jesus told the woman at the well: “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life” (John 4:13-14, NIV). In other words, I didn’t need to stress out or “…worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and [my] heavenly Father knows that [I] need them” (Matthew 6:31-32, NIV)). As the next verse indicates, a spiritual perspective is much more important than an earthly one: “But seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you” (Mt. 6:33, KJV). Indeed, all day, I felt like I was having little moments of “spiritual awakenings” in terms of real-life Bible application, for which I was thankful.

Monday, October 22 – Cheaper Water + French Dream + Quisaitout
·         Woke up early to work on grad school app process and check emails
·         Wished 4 or 5 kitchenmates a « Bonne journée ! » (“Have a good day!”) as they stopped through on their way to work; Spanish kitchenmate – one of the few who sits down to eat – asked me details of my job responsibilities / involvement in lesson planning, prob because she wanted to know how I have a job that only requires 12 hours in the classroom per week
·         After failed attempt to get a few bottles of water yesterday and being thrown off by the employees at my regular grocery store who were in the middle of pricing the water bottle section, I found the cheapest water yet at an alternate grocery store in the other direction with six 50-centiliter bottles for 1,10 (or 1,10 as it’s sometimes written), which is only about 0,18/bottle compared to the 0,30/bottle price that I’d seen in the least expensive scenarios when buying 2 bottles or so. Buying more definitely helps. I wouldn’t have done so had it not been for my disappointment on Sun.
·         Tried to blog, but kept getting distracted/stressed out over other things…needed a nap…
·         First dream in French during my time here! Except it was awkward because I was speaking French poorly with lots of hesitation as I struggled to be understood (don’t remember the context), which is why I remember that the dream was in French.
·         Métro line 12 to Solférino for my first theater/voice class with the club for foreign students/teaching assistants; even though others were there for homework help, no one else wanted to do the pronunciation/articulation training on this particular day, so I got a one-on-one class; read a scene from a more traditional play where a daughter doesn’t want to marry the suitor that her mother has in mind for her and then a silly scene from a modern play called Quisaitout et Grobêta = play on words describing a person who thinks he knows everything and a person who is not very intelligent. I let the lady have the latter and read the smart one ;)

Tuesday, October 23 – Adele + Presidential debate + Speaking Spanish + International gender roles discussion
·         As is often the case, spent time before breakfast checking emails since the Internet in my room works best in the mornings
·         Got my clothes in the washing machine in the next room very close to my scheduled time of 9:30 and listened out for it to do that weird mid-spin-cycle-pause-until-you-reselect-the-type-of-wash-thing from last week, although I really didn’t think anyone had signed up for the next time slot on the list downstairs
·         Different laundromat to dry clothes in order to save money: 1 for 10 minutes instead of 0,60 for 5 mins. or 1 for 8 mins. as at 2 other places in my neighborhood; this place is also a dry cleaners so people were coming in and out to pick up /drop off their clothes & I listened in on their convos from my chair in the small waiting area to see if I could understand what they were saying as I “read” my book, which was also in French BTW
·         Turned on the radio in the kitchen while I ate my leftover pot roast for lunch, but instead of French music, I heard Adele and “that don’t impress-sa me much!” So much for immersing myself in the language.
·         Meant to research the races on my absentee ballot from Athens-Clarke County (the last place in the States where I lived and contributed to society in a productive way before crashing at my parents’ crib in Cobb Co. for a few weeks leading up to my departure) so that I could start filling in my votes in an educated way; ended up watching the ENTIRE 90 minutes of the first presidential debate on my laptop in the common room since I’d read so much about it and was curious to see the President’s allegedly awful performance for myself
·         Actually spoke some Spanish while in the common room b/c a classical music group (perhaps from Spain?) was performing in our « arrondissement » (district/neighborhood of which there are 20 in Paris) and staying at our « foyer » (residence hall). One of the group members didn’t know how to log-on to the common computers but also didn’t know how to speak French or much English, so I broke out my little [SPAN 1001 (Spring 2009) + SPAN 1002 (Fall 2009) + 3 weeks of individual classes in Guatemala (Summer 2010)] knowledge and we got it figured out, plus I got a compliment on my Spanish, which was refreshing!
·         Cleaned my room a little and went grocery shopping
·         Brainstorming of initial Halloween ideas for Wednesday classes + light lunch 2 with kitchenmate + creation of final Halloween handout
·         Young Adults Pizza Night @ The American Church in Paris: after food and fellowship, small group discussion topic was gender roles at home/work/in the church based on our countries/cultures of origin since it’s a very international church; cool to hear everyone’s perspectives and simply to be in the midst of folks my age who also wanted to be hanging out at the house of God on a Tuesday night
·         Wrote in my journal this evening from memory these words from Psalm 20:7 (though I had to consult my concordance to find where this verse was in the Bible): “Some trust in chariots, and some in horses; but we will remember the name of the Lord our God.” Felt like this day had been particularly successful because I’d approached my long to-do list with the right attitude, unlike yesterday. Looked forward to another day (Lord willing) that was sure to be full of its own challenges, which would not be insurmountable if I would only lean and depend on the Lord.

Wednesday, October 24 – Bringing out the kid in me to teach about Halloween + « Merci, Spartanburg ! »
·         Good attitude continued, which helped me last through the day even though I had to wake up at 5 am for my 8:25 class: “Rejoice in the Lord always: and again I say, Rejoice” (Philippians 4:4).
·         Although I didn’t grow up celebrating it for religious reasons (which I mentioned briefly to my students in our non-religious school with my teacher’s blessing), I taught about Halloween this week since it’s a major American celebration and a topic that I thought would motivate the students to participate in class.
o   Put the ball in their court by first asking them to tell me all the words they knew IN ENGLISH related to Halloween as I made a list on the board; I’m not going to be able to differentiate between the classes I had on Wed/Thurs/Fri very well, but I got all kinds of responses from “ghost” and “witch” to “afraid” and “eggs” (as in, the ones that are thrown at windows as a prank) to “pagans” and “pumpkins,” although very few students knew “pumpkin” in English right off the bat
o   After we made our list, I asked about their Halloween traditions. Many of them did nothing or said that they used to trick-or-treat (though they might not have used this phrase) when they were little, but that now they just accompanied younger siblings/cousins without putting on costumes. Others were going to have slumber parties to watch scary movies with their friends or go to one of the major theme parks in town (Parc Astérix or Disneyland Paris) very late at night to take advantage of the Halloween-themed activities going on there.
o   Next, I distributed the handout I had made with 5 Halloween terms/definitions that needed to be matched to the 5 images below: pumpkin patch, horror film, trick-or-treating, jack-o’-lantern, and candy apple. I told them that I knew the matching activity was easy, but that I wanted to focus on reading and understanding the definitions. They got really into it, and I typically didn’t have any trouble finding volunteers to read. I let them finish before saying something like “very good” and then correcting any (wow, I was about to type “grave” because that means “serious” in French) serious pronunciation errors.
o   After we read each definition (which I made up, by the way), I asked if there were any questions, and many students weren’t afraid to speak up when they didn’t understand particular words. As the week progressed, I could kind of predict what they wouldn’t understand, so I had my drawings/gestures/acting routine nailed down for things like…
§  Children going through the large “selection” of pumpkins in an open “field” that are available “throughout” the month of October.
§   I used a little kid voice to say “trick-or-treat” and explained the threatening idea behind this phrase, which brought up the eggs or toilet paper if the class hadn’t already mentioned these items.
§  And I tried to help them realize that they knew more than they thought they did when defining words like “carve” in the context of a jack-o’-lantern; I put “fork,” “knife,” and “spoon,” on the board and asked which I would use if I wanted to carve a face onto a pumpkin. They always answered correctly, although someone pronounced the “k” once.
§  I was sure to tell them that spoons are also involved in the process when I helped to describe the phrase “hollowed out” to them. For that part, I acted out the lifting of a heavy pumpkin onto the teacher’s desk in order to let them know that they are “full” and not “empty” when you first get them from the “patch.” I got a lot of laughs because I was being so silly, but at least they were paying attention and asking questions.
§  P.S. Shout-out to my small group from Athens Church with whom I carved a pumpkin in 2010! I kept thinking about you while I was teaching this lesson. Someone asked what you do with the stuff you take out of the pumpkin, and I was reminded of all of that messy pulp we had to deal with! I did tell them that you could roast the seeds (which required acting out a farmer planting seeds that grow into trees or something) for a snack :)
o   Felt like a successful teacher when one student came up to me after class to ask for a copy of the handout for an absent classmate and another to ask me what she could do to improve her English because she hoped to move to America someday. I almost wanted to look around like, Oh, you’re asking me? That’s right, I’m the teacher!  
o   I think the black-and-white Ann Taylor Loft dress from graduation combined with my red sweater (GO DAWGS!!!) helped me look like a pro ;) I definitely dress more nicely than a lot of the other teachers, but I’m also like 10-40 years younger than them, so I’m tryna balance things out.
·         Wasted some time/money trying to print the postage-paid absentee ballot return envelope template that I had received by email so that I wouldn’t have to pay to send my ballot to Athens-Clarke County. I was trying to buy an appropriately-sized envelope at the grocery store, but I forgot that I had memorized a rough estimate of the template in inches rather than centimeters. The only rulers on the school supply aisle were in centimeters only, so that didn’t help. And I don’t have a smartphone here. All I could think of was 2.2 for some kind of conversion, so I told myself that there were 2.2 cm in an inch and bought a pack of envelopes that seemed like they would be just right for printing the postage/address template. Too bad this conversion I was thinking of was for kilograms and pounds. Plus, when I got to one of the printing/photocopying places in my neighborhood, where they actually had larger envelopes available, the guy said that envelope wouldn’t fit in his printer so he couldn’t help me. So much for that! Perhaps if I’d actually applied for an absentee ballot early enough to have them mail me all of my materials instead of sending them by email, then I wouldn’t have had this problem.
·         Attended a Wine and Cheese event sponsored by the Fulbright Alumni Association that evening, so there were French people (young and old) there who had gone to America to work as French teaching assistants at the secondary or post-secondary level or to do research, as well as all of my American colleagues who are here teaching English or doing research in the Paris area plus a handful of American alums who are still around.
o   Favorite part was when these two older women were kind of looking over at the group of people I was standing in and saying something about “the one from Atlanta,” which made me go over to them. It turned out that one of them had taught middle and high school French at “Colored” and “White” schools in Spartanburg, South Carolina in the late 60’s/early 70’s on a Fulbright grant, so she had noticed that I was from the southeast when we had done our introductions earlier. I told her that actually my dad was from Spartanburg, so I had been there many times during my childhood. She was shocked because it’s a pretty small town, so she hadn’t even expected me to have heard of it (sorry, Dad). She launched into stories about teaching at particular schools there, but they didn’t mean very much to me since I am not very familiar with the school system. And I think we figured out that she wouldn’t have taught my dad because he moved to Detroit at around the time that she was in town. As we left the function, though, I helped her find her gloves that had fallen on the floor, and she said « Merci, Spartanburg ! » (“Thank you, Spartanburg!”) I never thought I’d have that nickname…
o   Oh, and another French alum whom I’d met at our welcome function earlier in the month and who had studied at the University of Alabama (I had to forgive him for that) said something about seeing me at the Halloween dinner in a few weeks. I was like, Do you mean Thanksgiving? That wasn’t the first time I’d heard people mix up these two very American holidays.
o   I decided to take the bus home instead of the metro because it was a straight shot. The ride took me past the Eiffel Tower and the Arch de Triomphe on the Champs-Elysées. What a wonderful reminder that I’m really here, in Paris.

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